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Baptism

We are excited to help you with the baptism of your child! Baptism brings new life into the Church and the parish. Our Office of Lifelong Faith Formation and team are here to support you!

To begin the process of having a child baptized, please complete our Baptism Inquiry Form. If your child is over the age of 7, please contact Elise Flick, our Director of Lifelong Faith Formation.

Below is a list of frequently asked questions (FAQs). If your question isn’t answered below, please contact us at baptisms@oldstmarys.com

Frequently Asked Questions

We welcome anyone to have their child baptized at Old St. Mary’s, as long as the family can honestly attest in the rite that they “are accepting the responsibility of training their child in the practice of the faith” and will “bring the child up to keep God’s commandments as Christ taught us, by loving God and our neighbor.”

These are the upcoming scheduled baptism dates at Old St. Mary’s. Up to December 2025, Baptisms at Old St. Mary’s will be celebrated during the Mass. 

Beginning in January 2026, we will be shifting how we celebrate baptisms at Old St. Mary’s.

Unless otherwise indicated, families presenting their child for baptism will be welcomed during the 11:00 AM Sunday Mass, where the community will greet them and join in prayer. The baptism itself will be celebrated immediately after Mass. 

Baptisms are usually celebrated during Mass, allowing the whole community to share in the joy. If this isn’t possible for your family, please email baptisms@oldstmarys.com — we’d be happy to discuss your situation!

According to Canon Law, a person who meets the following criteria can be a baptismal godparent: 

* Fully initiated Catholic (has received Baptism, Communion, and Confirmation).
* At least 16 years of age. 
* A Practicing Catholic who leads a life in harmony with the faith and the role to be undertaken. 
* If married, should have been married in a Catholic ceremony. 
 
A baptized non-Catholic is ineligible to serve as a baptismal Godparent. They may however serve as a Christian witness. 
 
Please note that all Godparents must provide a letter of good standing from their home parish, confirming their eligibility to serve as Godparents. 
If a Godparent is not able to be present, that Godparent may request a proxy to stand in their place. 

Only one Godparent is required, but if you choose to have two, one must be male and the other female.

We understand that many parents wish to include multiple loved ones as Godparents. While you are welcome to have others play a special role in your child’s faith journey, please note that only two names—one male and one female—can be listed on the baptism certificate. If you have multiple Godparents of the same sex, only one name will be recorded on the certificate.

Yes! We’re happy to provide a letter of good standing or complete a parish form if one has already been given to you. Please email us at Fr. Dan with your request, and include any forms that need to be signed.

We’re happy to issue a letter of permission for you. We’ll need the name and location of the parish where the baptism will take place, as well as the scheduled date if known. You’re still very welcome to attend our baptismal preparation class here at Old St. Mary’s. Please email us at baptisms@oldstmarys.com.

Parents bringing their child for baptism are encouraged to actively practice their faith.

That said, we understand that every family’s faith journey is different. If you’d like to talk more about baptism and what it means for your family, please reach out to baptisms@oldstmarys.com – we’re happy to walk with you!

If a priest from outside the Archdiocese of Chicago will be presiding, a letter of good standing from their home diocese is required. We’re happy to help with this: please contact  baptisms@oldstmarys.com for guidance on next steps.

A customary offering of $100 is appreciated for baptisms at Old St. Mary’s. Your generosity helps support our parish community, but please give as you are able and according to your means.

If this is someone’s first time serving as a Godparent, we strongly encourage them to take a baptism class. If they’re not local, they can find a class near them or join a virtual session with us.

For those who have been Godparents before, a class isn’t required, but they’re always welcome to attend if they’d like a refresher!

The process for baptism for adults is through the Order of Initiation for Adults (OCIA). You can find out more by visiting our OCIA page.